You are not broken. You are an astonishing, breathtaking story being written
right now.
Erotic liberation isn’t about fixing yourself—it’s about claiming permission to uncover the pleasure and creative power buried under ‘shoulds,’ shame, and stale scripts.
Freedom is allowing yourself to be who you already are.
Hi, I’m Ryan.
Queer, polyamorous, ex-software-dev-turned-joy-explorer. Recovered from 20 years of depression by embracing pleasure as power. Freed from a small-minded, punitive Christian upbringing by learning to love myself. Certified Blueprint Breakthrough™ and Accelerated Evolution Coach—but really, I’m just a human who believes:
Your desires are not wrong, not mistakes.
Your body is not a problem to solve.
Freedom tastes like laughing during sex.
This Is For You If…
You’ve ever wondered, "What if I could really own my desires—without guilt?"
You’re queer, questioning, or just done with rigid gender roles.
You want magnificent sex that feels like play, not performance.
You’re ready to trade shame for curiosity (and maybe a
little 😈).
And, um… If you’re thinking, "Am I too ___ for this?"—you’re exactly who I work with.
How It Works
Step 1 — Free "Hell Yes or Hell No" Call
5 min. to 90 min. Zero pressure.
We’ll talk about your desires, fears, and what "erotic liberation" could look like for you.
Not a fit? I’ll cheer you on anyway. If I know someone I think would be a better fit, I’ll send you to them—I know a few other coaches 😉
Step 2 — Choose Your Adventure
Erotic Blueprint™ Journey (8 sessions + tools to melt shame)
Get Unstuck Intensive (5 Accelerated Evolution (AE) sessions to break patterns and reset beliefs) Note AE is widely applicable, useful for any aspect of life where there’s emotional charge.
Step 3 — Celebrate Every Win
This step is on repeat. From tiny "aha"s to cosmic pleasure—we’ll honor it all.
Why Pleasure Matters
Your sexuality isn’t a side dish—it’s life-force energy. Reclaim it, and you’ll notice:
Your ‘yes’ gets louder. Your ‘no’ gets clearer.
You are more connected to Joy—the state of being, not mere fleeting happiness.
You start trusting your inner knowing more than the rules you never chose for yourself in the first place.
Where you can find me.
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